Do this and your best man speech will be phenomenal.

A while back I attended the wedding of a close friend of mine. I wasn’t the best man nor was I even in the wedding party. I did, however, get to hear some pretty incredible speaking. Now, I’m not saying the speeches were perfect. I saw plenty of the same fundamental errors that I tout about in my book The Ultimate Best Man Speech available on

Here is what I observed that I feel is most noteworthy and will help you in your own upcoming best man speech.

None of the speakers used notes. The maiden of honor brought notes up but never looked at them once. All of the speakers looked to the audience. They looked to the bride and groom. They looked to each other, and it made all the difference in the world. All their speeches were fantastic, and will forever be remembered this way

Why is this important?   Well. I’m glad you asked

In the beginning of my book one of the first things that I do is I try to encourage you to resist the temptation to memorize a speech template but instead to come up with your own message. I encourage this for a very specific reason. The most critical element by which you will be judged is the sincerity and the genuine nature of your message. You can only accomplish this with authenticity. Authenticity is damaged when you read your speech. You can mess up a lot of stuff and still have people raving about how great your best man speech was if you can clearly communicate a message that has come from the bottom of your heart. When you speak without notes you’ve accomplished half the battle of demonstrating authenticity.

I show you how to do this in my book The Ultimate Best Man Speech, but I also offer a coaching package in which I teach you how to cultivate your message and then I teach you a memorization technique which will allow you to easily memorize the speech and deliver the speech without needing notes. Using this technique will skyrocket your results if your goal is to deliver a phenomenal best man speech. Anyone interested in our personal coaching package in which we help you develop, practice, and memorize your speech should contact us.  Just click the complimentary 15 minute consultation tab.  I’ll be happy to have a candid conversation with you to see if we are a good fit.

In constructing your best man speech remember this. You don’t have to be perfect, in fact, its very likely that perfect is not a practical goal. If you can be authentic and deliver the speech with minimal use of  notes you will increase the power of your message exponentially.




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